"It changed me; It changed the way I look at life," said this woman about her profound experience during her pregnancy.
She felt that the life she co-created with her partner–even though only for a short time–was sacred and divine. Around the same time of her pregnancy loss her father died. Because she had been exploring spiritual beliefs from African traditions, she had a different understanding of these two losses than she might have had otherwise.
"My baby is not lost in some abyss somewhere," she said. "My baby is with my Dad and all of my ancestors."
She also reflected on a healthcare system that still provided sub-par care for women like her. She mentioned that too often, pregnant Black women were seen by healthcare professionals as barely "human-adjacent," which could be seen in medical illustrations, beliefs about Black women and pain, and all manner of other ways.
Her hope was that all physicians could be trained to provide better care for all their patients and felt that this improved training must include teaching about the long history of medical racism.
Listener Poet Yvette Perry
Health4Equity
April 2022
Libation
Yemoja’s water broke,
flooding rivers into life.
The water of my tears
and my flowing blood
are libation
for the sacred life
I co-created.
My connection is
still strong,
though my baby
has joined my father
and other ancestors.
All are loving on my baby.
This is a great comfort.
I celebrate with them.
From a white pitcher
I pour river water—-
cool to the touch
and ancient to all memory--
onto the sun-cracked earth,
whispering
ubuntu
ubuntu
ubuntu
I am
(a mother)
because
you are.
Every day, I try to see through the patient lens, and I ask: what can we do to change this broken system?
She was very proud of her daughter and has hopes for “a bright future that’s as pain free as possible”
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"I'd tell her it's OK to be loud...it's OK to challenge and to bring all of you into these spaces where no one looks like you..."
“I'm continuously questioning: did I do it right?" she said. "I’ve always done a good amount of second-guessing, but I’m re-learning how to show up differently.”
“It’s weird,” she said. “This is one of the biggest accomplishments of my life, but it doesn’t feel like it.”
"It changed me; It changed the way I look at life," said this woman about her profound experience during her pregnancy.
“It’s been more challenging than normal lately,” she said. “I’m only one person. It's a struggle for me to say no, but I can’t do everything that’s being asked of me right now.”
"I've been processing how to make the most of the small amount of life we have to live," said this physician.
"I've been processing how to make the most of the small amount of life we have to live," said this physician.
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“I feel like I have decision fatigue,” she told me. It was normal for her to make many choices at work, but COVID had dramatically increased the number of medical decisions she had to make at home.
“I know ‘vibe’ is kind of a nonspecific term, but I think about people’s vibes all the time,” he said.“ Sometimes you come into a room and it’s just off.
This physician discussed being the only one in his practice network with expertise in patients with a specific type of chronic pain.
“Our constituents are uniquely affected by the pandemic,” they said. This poemee was an educational psychologist who spoke about how much they missed working in person with med students, healthcare staff, and medical educators.
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Although he had been through many stressful experiences in his life and recently, he always held onto his positive outlook. He took particular care to use words intentionally, paying attention to their connotations, so that his positivity extended to those that he interacted with as well.
“There’s a constant feeling inside that I should be doing more,” she said. “But I also want to be kind to myself and recognize all that I’ve given.”
These members of the Wellness team in the Department of Neurology at the University of Colorado each spoke about the importance of community and connection.
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He brought the tools of mindfulness and self-care to medical students, many of whom had been studying all this past year, 10 hours a day, day after day, in isolation.
The pandemic had forced this woman to slow her life down drastically. Before, she’d travelled around every month for work, never stopping, working hard because she cared about her job. The slower pace created by social distancing had reminded her to cherish everything that life had to offer outside of work.
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